Me and Mum usually have record breaking fights, and we never had a single fight where mum didnt utter"Nighun ja ekadachi, parat tond dakhavu nakos..." i.e. "Go away, i never wanna see you again". We had such a fight one Sunday, I don even remember the reason now... But we patch up, immediately.. the argument doesn't last for more den an hour or so...
The same day I got a call from an MBA institute, I learned I have passed with flying colours in the entrance test. they wanted to meet me for the PI... I was thrilled...!! MBA was on my list since I passed my SSC, & away from home, in a hostel.. was like icing on the cake with cherry atop. I told dakku bout it, n as usual he was ok with it, we planned going to Pune on the coming Saturday.
All was fine till then, the day arrived, I was all dressed in formals, waiting for the PI, i wasn't really nervous or anything, but yeah there was a strange feeling in my stomach,you know the one you get before appearing for the exam. We reached, sat for sometime while the representative explained the admission procedure, the fee structure etc etc...I didn't pay much attention, was waiting for the PI.. Since it was a weekend the PI happened in the same room were my parents were seated, you must be knowing how weird that moment is, but it wasn't going to change so i adapted myself. the interview went beautifully, i can say that by the look on my dakkus face, he looked so proud :') and i knew what I wanted to do, And I nailed it. yabadabadooooo..
I was happy, so were they. In a weeks time I'll be there studying.. wink wink... we sat in the car & both started acting weird. Mum got irritated for no reason, Dakku was trust me over acting, pretending to be very happy, then mum broke down, dad got irritated, & I was just confused, Wat on the earth is goin on????? I kept quite. After reaching home all were normal, for sometime, My parents were absolutely going bonkers, My mum yelled at me for some reason(silly silly silly reason) which made me cry, I was going through this craaziness since morning, & it had reached the threshold now, We got into a fight & surprise surprise, she did not utter her patent dialogue to me, & the moment of enlightenment... they weren't happy about me moving away... leme get this straight.. Me going for MBA, Passed with flying colors, rocked the PI= HAPPY whereas me off to Pune= NOT HAPPY!!
I am usually not expressive, i never say Love you, Miss you to my friends, never had a boyfriend to be experienced to say those words, hugs, all that filmy drama is a BIG NO NO.. very tacky... So I had no option but to assert it... I kept saying that its good, Mum will finally get rid of me... its been a week now, we hadn't had a single fight, lil things iritate dakku, but he knows were to stop unlike mum.. : / .
But anyway, its just a matter of 2 years, its not like m gonna stay away for long, & its Pune barely 4 hours from Mumbai, not Canada! Wonder what will happen when I get married?
Anyway, the point is, They Love you, They Hate you, dusro ke bacche are the best, we are worst, they wanna drift you away, but secretly they detest it, they irritate you, No guy/ gal will be best for you, they even hate Ur spouses, sometimes your closest pal, god knows, they are so complicated. But we love them anyway right.. afterall They are all that you need & want, whats more comforting then pouring the agression of work on your mom, or whats more soothing they eating Ice cream form dads share, I know M the Devil, But its ok.. they love me... So who cares!!
The same day I got a call from an MBA institute, I learned I have passed with flying colours in the entrance test. they wanted to meet me for the PI... I was thrilled...!! MBA was on my list since I passed my SSC, & away from home, in a hostel.. was like icing on the cake with cherry atop. I told dakku bout it, n as usual he was ok with it, we planned going to Pune on the coming Saturday.
All was fine till then, the day arrived, I was all dressed in formals, waiting for the PI, i wasn't really nervous or anything, but yeah there was a strange feeling in my stomach,you know the one you get before appearing for the exam. We reached, sat for sometime while the representative explained the admission procedure, the fee structure etc etc...I didn't pay much attention, was waiting for the PI.. Since it was a weekend the PI happened in the same room were my parents were seated, you must be knowing how weird that moment is, but it wasn't going to change so i adapted myself. the interview went beautifully, i can say that by the look on my dakkus face, he looked so proud :') and i knew what I wanted to do, And I nailed it. yabadabadooooo..
I was happy, so were they. In a weeks time I'll be there studying.. wink wink... we sat in the car & both started acting weird. Mum got irritated for no reason, Dakku was trust me over acting, pretending to be very happy, then mum broke down, dad got irritated, & I was just confused, Wat on the earth is goin on????? I kept quite. After reaching home all were normal, for sometime, My parents were absolutely going bonkers, My mum yelled at me for some reason(silly silly silly reason) which made me cry, I was going through this craaziness since morning, & it had reached the threshold now, We got into a fight & surprise surprise, she did not utter her patent dialogue to me, & the moment of enlightenment... they weren't happy about me moving away... leme get this straight.. Me going for MBA, Passed with flying colors, rocked the PI= HAPPY whereas me off to Pune= NOT HAPPY!!
I am usually not expressive, i never say Love you, Miss you to my friends, never had a boyfriend to be experienced to say those words, hugs, all that filmy drama is a BIG NO NO.. very tacky... So I had no option but to assert it... I kept saying that its good, Mum will finally get rid of me... its been a week now, we hadn't had a single fight, lil things iritate dakku, but he knows were to stop unlike mum.. : / .
But anyway, its just a matter of 2 years, its not like m gonna stay away for long, & its Pune barely 4 hours from Mumbai, not Canada! Wonder what will happen when I get married?
Anyway, the point is, They Love you, They Hate you, dusro ke bacche are the best, we are worst, they wanna drift you away, but secretly they detest it, they irritate you, No guy/ gal will be best for you, they even hate Ur spouses, sometimes your closest pal, god knows, they are so complicated. But we love them anyway right.. afterall They are all that you need & want, whats more comforting then pouring the agression of work on your mom, or whats more soothing they eating Ice cream form dads share, I know M the Devil, But its ok.. they love me... So who cares!!
